I walk with men while they work out their unknown problems

Walk With Me

Because men think better when they don't have to justify themselves

This means that I work with small numbers at a time. That is not a marketing line — it is a constraint I keep deliberately, because the work requires it.

These are the ways we can work together. All are variations of proximity and form.

Second Sunday

Second Sunday of the month | 8pm NZ Time | Audio only
Calls are anonymous | Account required for registration

A private, audio-only space for men who feel like something is missing, but can't put a finger on it. "You have the job, the routine, or the life—but it feels like you're just going through the motions".

Listen in, learn about the programmes, ask questions. Anonymously.

Second Sunday


The Second Spring

$2700 or six monthly payments of $450

A 48-week email coaching journey for men in midlife who sense that something vital has gone missing. One message every Friday. Three questions. Private, written, unhurried. This is not your decline. This is your turning point.

The Second Spring


Talk the Walk

$1800 per month

One-to-one mentoring for men in the second half of life, conducted by voice over WhatsApp while we are each walking. No formula. Time, attention, and some hard-won familiarity with the terrain.

Talk the Walk


The Forge at Buakaw Village

$1800 per week

A week or two at a working Muay Thai camp in rural Chiang Mai. You train with the camp. I am there for the walks, the meals, and the conversations that only happen when there is nowhere else to be.

The Forge at Buakaw Village


The Indivisible Week

$13 500 per week

One week. I come to you. No phones, no laptops, no distractions. We walk, we talk, we eat, we drink if necessary. Any location that satisfies these terms is acceptable — you choose it, you arrange it, you pay for it.

This is not a retreat with an itinerary. It is a week with no scaffolding around it.

The Indivisible Week

Not sure which one's for you?

Everything of value starts with a question