Walk With Me

I walk with men while they work out their problems. Because men think better when they don't have to justify themselves

This means that I work with a small number of people at a time. That is not a marketing line — it is a constraint I keep deliberately, because the work requires it.

The archive is free to read. The thinking behind it is here for anyone to access. If you want the person behind it, these are the ways we can work together. All variations of proximity and form.

Field Notes

Free to read on site. Free to your inbox.

Self-Directed Programmes

Second Sunday

Second Sunday of the month | 8pm NZ Time | Audio only
Calls are anonymous | Account required for registration

A private, audio-only space for men who feel like something is missing, but can't put a finger on it. "You have the job, the routine, or the life—but it feels like you're just going through the motions".

Listen in, learn about the programmes, ask questions. Anonymously.

Second Sunday


The Commons

No charge, you just need to set up an account

A forum in the old sense. People thinking about the same territory, meeting to compare notes and push back on each other's conclusions. Membership is free; it requires an account, which means you are no longer anonymous. The first step of walking with someone rather than reading their field notes from a distance.

The Commons


Autumnal Despatches

$5 per month; cancel any time

A periodic letter, sent when there is something worth sending. Not a digest of recent posts — thinking that has had time to settle, connections that only became clear in retrospect. Closer to correspondence than content.

Autumnal Despatches


The Second Spring

$900 or six monthly payments of $150

A 48-week email coaching journey for men in midlife who sense that something vital has gone missing. One message every Friday. Three questions. Private, written, unhurried. This is not your decline. This is your turning point.

The Second Spring


Talk the Walk

$450 per quarter (3 x $150 monthly payments available)

One-to-one mentoring for men in the second half of life, conducted by voice over WhatsApp while we are each walking. No formula. Time, attention, and some hard-won familiarity with the terrain.

Talk the Walk


The Forge at Buakaw Village

$900 per week

A week or two at a working Muay Thai camp in rural Chiang Mai. You train with the camp. I am there for the walks, the meals, and the conversations that only happen when there is nowhere else to be.

The Forge at Buakaw Village

Institutional Services

Executive Editing & Ghostwriting

Fees by project

Business documents that need to land — a pitch, a proposal, a board memo. Correct and convincing are not the same thing. I work on the gap between them.

Executive Editing & Ghostwriting


English Coaching for Non-Native Executives

Fees by project

I help your English work harder for you. Live, one-to-one coaching for executives operating in English as a second language — finding the English structures that match how you actually think, not replacing your thinking with someone else's idiom.

English Coaching for Non-Native Executives


Corporate Craftsmanship

Fees by project

Organisational work that is closer to cartography than consulting. Making visible the dynamics an organisation can feel but cannot quite name. If the same problem keeps recurring in different forms, that is usually the signal.

Corporate Craftsmanship

Not sure which one's for you?